Journey to Ireland for The Gathering: Part One

Me at Blackwater Castle in my ancestral village, Cork, Ireland for The Gathering

Me at Blackwater Castle in my ancestral village, Cork, Ireland for The Gathering

On the goose bump trail to find my ancestral home in Ireland

Researching my family history in Dublin, boarding a famine ship in Wexford and discovering an ancestral castle in Cork: These were just some of the highlights of my trip to Ireland to connect with the land my ancestors left behind more than 200 years ago when they journeyed to British North America (now Canada) for the chance of a better life. I was on what genealogist Helen Kelly describes as the “goose bump trail” to walk the ground of my ancestors during Ireland’s Year of The Gathering. And, yes, there were goose bumps indeed…

Apple orchard on the Blackwater Castle Estate in Castletownroche, Cork, Ireland

As I wrote this post in Dublin, I was eating a crisp apple that came from an orchard on the Blackwater Castle estate in Castletownroche, Ireland. It was perhaps the best apple I have ever eaten — certainly the most significant, for I picked it myself just a day or two before. Climbing the 12th century tower of Blackwater Castle to survey the village and environs of Castletownroche in Cork was one of the highlights of my Gathering trip to Ireland — for it was from Castletownroche that my ancestors left Ireland, more than 200 years ago.

The Gathering, Ireland 2013 The Gathering 2013

The Gathering is a year-long festival of events all across Ireland to entice and entertain visitors, especially the Irish diaspora. It’s a celebration of Irish culture, history, people and places. To learn more visit The Gathering website; The Gathering Facebook page; and check out the travel offers on the Ireland Tourism Canada site.

The dead centre of Dublin

When I arrived in Dublin, before my road trip to the south east to “walk the ground of my ancestors,” I made a couple of stops to research my family history. The first was to visit Glasnevin Museum and Cemetery during the week of the Glasnevin Whelan Family Gathering, which I wrote about in My link with Ireland. I went on a cemetery tour that was gripping, informative and just creepy enough: I highly recommend it as an entertaining way to learn about modern Irish history.

Glasnevin Cemetery Dublin Ireland

Actor reciting stirring Patrick Pearse speech at Glasnevin Cemetery, Dublin, Ireland

Most of the major figures in Irish history and culture are buried in the vast cemetery, and there are plenty of stories about their lives and deaths to fill a two-hour tour. Glasnevin is the largest cemetery in Ireland, and more people are buried there (1.5 million) than currently live in Dublin (1.2 million).

We like to say we are the dead centre of Dublin.” Glasnevin Deputy CEO Mervyn Colville

Afterwards, Mervyn Colville showed me around the museum and even into an off-limits research room filled with ancient, brittle record books. The museum is surprisingly state-of-the-art, and was designed by someone with a dark sense of humour. I think the tour and museum are a must-visit in Dublin. However, though there are 10,000 Whelans buried in Glasnevin, and though I was there during the week of the Whelan Family Gathering, there were no gatherings scheduled and I was not able to make contact with any potential living relations.

Learning to walk the goose bump trail

The next day, I met up with genealogist Helen Kelly at the National Library of Ireland, one of those many stately Georgian buildings in Dublin that give the city its character. Helen is a professional genealogist who was assigned to me via Failte Ireland. Among her other roles, Helen is the Genealogy Butler at the historic Shelbourne Hotel.

Genealogist Helen Kelly

Genealogist Helen Kelly

Helen showed me the resources in a second floor room devoted to genealogical research, and we talked about my “case” and the difficulty of tracing old records. Added to the difficulty is the fact that the names I am tracing are relatively common — it’s much easier to trace an uncommon name.

For a list of resources to help trace your family in Ireland, please scroll down.

Helen’s modus operandi is to empower people to do their own research. She said she tells people to: “identify the place and take themselves to it.” Her best advice is to, “cradle yourself in the landscape of your ancestors” and that’s what I decided to do. Instead of spending my time in Ireland chasing paper, I chose to visit the counties associated with two of the names in my Nana’s family tree: Whelan (Waterford and Wexford) and Roche (Cork).

This is what it’s all about for the Diaspora,” Helen said. “I call it the goose bump trail.”

I worked with Helen and a copy of a family history to ascertain that my Whelan ancestors came from south east Ireland and my Roche ancestors from Castletownroche (see my blog My link with Ireland). So it was to these areas that I drove with scant information, just points on a compass, really; plus a map, an open mind, a trusting heart and a desire to connect with my past.

The reading room at the National Library of Ireland, Dublin

The reading room at the National Library of Ireland, Dublin

Pier of The Sorrows

More than 200 years ago, my ancestors Clara Carty and John Whelan made the short journey to the port of Queenstown in Cork, Ireland to escape living under harsh conditions following the 1798 Rebellion. I wrote about their tragic history some months ago, before I left for Ireland, in The Journey From Ireland … and Back.

In September 2013, I also made the journey to Queenstown, now called Cobh, on the southern coast of Ireland. For me it was a reverent journey, accompanied by the deep feelings that all true pilgrimages engender.

Cobh pier, Cork, Ireland

The pier at Cobh, formerly Queenstown

As I drove the long, winding road that follows the River Lee towards Cobh — one of the world’s finest natural and deepest harbours — I tried to imagine how it might have been for my ancestors as they prepared to leave their homeland forever. And it was impossible. How can we know — in this age of jet air travel and instant communication — how people felt when they left Ireland in the 19th century, knowing they would never see their country or kin ever again? They used to hold wakes for people leaving Ireland, because they were as good as dead.

When John and Clara left Ireland, there was just a trickle of people boarding flimsy wooden boats for the two-month journey across the Atlantic Ocean to the new world. By the mid-19th century, when the famine was devastating the land, the trickle grew to a flood. This period, called “The Great Hunger,” cut a swath through the history of Ireland, and the deep gash is still felt: before 1840, there were eight million people in Ireland. After 1850, there were four million. Many died of hunger, and many emigrated to Canada, the USA and Australia.

Today, the population of Ireland is still only about six million; it has never fully recovered. But the Irish Diaspora totals about 80 million worldwide — which is why Ireland is holding The Gathering this year, to bring people of Irish descent home.

And I was one of them.

Dunbrody Famine Immigrant Ship Wexford Ireland

Dunbrody Famine Ship

Boarding a coffin ship

Today, there are many sites in Ireland set up so that you can experience the country’s history. Before driving to Cobh, I stopped in New Ross, Wexford — just a few kilometres from the site of the John F. Kennedy homestead — to tour the Dunbrody Famine Ship. The Dunbrody is a replica of a ship built in Quebec in 1845 for transporting timber from Quebec to Ireland. It was pressed into service as a passenger ship to help transport some of the millions who left Ireland during the famine years.

Visiting the Dunbrody museum — built to resemble a quayside warehouse from the 19th century — and then the ship, was a surprisingly moving experience. They’ve done an excellent job of trying to recreate the experience. I was given a passenger ticket with a name on it, and encouraged to find “my bunk.” While below decks, the tour guide explained how harsh the conditions were, and why many people died enroute — giving rise to the term “coffin ships.” A couple of actors appeared to complete the verité experience. The actress who played the peasant woman, Anne White, was eerily good. She rocked a baby doll, told us she had four more children with her, and had already buried two — and was going on the voyage to British North America because she didn’t want to bury any more.

Dunbrody Famine Immigrant Ship Wexford Ireland

Actress playing passenger Anne White aboard Dunbrody ship

After stories about being locked downstairs for most of the day and only being allowed on deck for half-an-hour; of having to use a bucket toilet; of rations of hard-tack biscuits; of entire families being crammed into small bunks, I was suitably horrified. You can say what you want about tourist attractions, but this one really did give me a deeply felt idea of what my ancestors endured to go in search of a better life for themselves, their children, and their descendants — me.

To say I was humbled and grateful by the experience is an understatement.

To read the rest of my Gathering story, stay tuned for Part Two!

Posts in this series

  1. Going Home to Ireland
  2. The Journey from Ireland and Back
  3. On the Whelan Trail in Eastern Ontario
  4. In Search of My Ottawa Valley Irish Roots
  5. My link with Ireland: Nan
  6. Journey to Ireland for The Gathering: Part One
  7. Journey to Ireland for The Gathering: Part Two

Genealogical Resources for finding your family history in Ireland

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8 Responses to Journey to Ireland for The Gathering: Part One

  1. Renuka October 18, 2013 at 1:57 pm #

    It’s lovely to read your ancestral story…yeah waiting for part two. 🙂
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  2. Bridget Whelan October 18, 2013 at 4:17 pm #

    Hi Mariellen
    I’m a Whelan by marriage but I researched my husband’s family tree back to 1870s when his great grandfather left Ireland. Family legend has it that he was a Bengal Lancer – not sure about that but we do have a copy of a photograph of him as a dashing young man in a lancer’s uniform. Although I have always associated the name with Carlow and County Dublin, he was also from Cork. After leaving the service, he married and settled in London. He was a hansom cab driver in Wimbledon. He is supposed to have drunk every fare he received and I found his death certificate that confirmed he died in the workhouse from alcoholism in 1914.

    • Mariellen Ward October 19, 2013 at 8:10 am #

      Wow, thanks for sharing Bridget. That’s quite a story. You never know what you will uncover when you do family research …
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  3. Hogga October 22, 2013 at 1:37 pm #

    wow, such an interesting read!

  4. Shannon O'Donnell October 24, 2013 at 11:19 am #

    You make me ache to go back to Ireland myself. We have family in one area in the West, and I was 21 when my dad took me there to see the farm my great-grandfather had left. Looks like you had a wonderful time connecting to your roots!

  5. Witty_Levitating_Buddha October 29, 2013 at 8:33 pm #

    I must say travelling through Ireland was an awesome experience for me. In spite of the constant cloud cover, there is this colourful, surreal glow about Ireland particularly in late spring when I visited. It seems like an imaginary dream-land and you feel at any moment at dusk, a goblin or elf or a hobbit or an imp would pop out of the bushes and whisk you off to to an imaginary land or some subterranean city! In many ways, it reminds me of New zealand down under. The Irish people have this cheerful, happy go lucky, open, friendly, welcoming demeanor.

    Comparing Britain to Ireland, being an Indian-Brit (having grown up in London), the sights, sounds, scents of Ireland were just incredible. Growing up in London, I hung out in the Irish section of London, Kilburn and in many ways felt more at home with the Irish than the English in London. Besides, Irish women are prettier ! Haha!

    The English in general are the exact opposite of the Irish, that is reserved, withdrawn, cold, often insular and haughty with that empire complex. . No wonder the Irish and the English found it hard to get along for centuries! They are polar opposites ! Besides, Irish food is so much more delicious than English cuisine !

    I visited Ireland with my my girlfriend who is part Irish-part English. All she had to do was mention that she was part-Irish ( and catholic !) and we would get treated like long lost cousins by families and strangers with great food, great beer, great desserts, just fantastic hospitality !!

    Being Indian, I felt Irish hospitality was very similar to the kind of warmth and hospitality that Indian families dole out to strangers, particularly foreigners, a stark contrast to the cold, aloof, reserved, distant Germanic nature of English society!

    I just love reading your blog, Mariellen !! It takes me through time and space to my own wonderful experiences travelling to distant lands ! I think you and Shannon O’ Donnell above are such superb writers !

  6. Ross November 28, 2013 at 3:23 am #

    Very interesting read on your journey ‘back’ to Ireland. You know more about your history that I do. And I’m Irish!
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